fading away?

its interesting to see things fade away ratehr than have an explosive ending. when ever i've thought abotu friendships ending, quarters ending, schoole nding, trips ending, life ending, i always imagine a huge emotionally filled explosive event to end them. and its curious to see things, liek friendships right now, just fade away into the grain of life. so cliche, yes yes yes, i agree. but man, when you see it happen its really crazy.

on a similar and unrelated note, is it better to a) not have it at all 2) have it in a diluted form for a short time 3) have it fully concentrated for a short time?. i can't decide, but then again if you don't have the decision to make, do you just roll with it or do you just end it?